Her future

today we visited the man who gave her the chinese name

I am not into fortune telling or what not.. though I do read into astrology like Linda Goodman birth signs character or what not, I mean who doesn't read Linda Goodman when they were young?? Like how how compatible THAT guy is to my star and if it will ever be happy ever after?

I however do not read the stars moving around the skies or whether it becomes a straight line and all that shits. Regardless of what ever, we take everything with a pinch of salt like always.

So there is this guy that DD T consults with for business... you know businessmen and their interesting way of doing business right? This guy is Grandpa John's guy which in return has become the family guy that they turn to for like example; when to open office after chinese new year and choosing of office space etc...

I was always very doubtful of things like that for I feel that I depict my own fate.. but as years go by I see the things that have been done or said to the people around me who consulted him, I do sometimes realize it may not just be self fulfilling prophecies anymore.

So we visited him today just to show our princess to him and DD T wanted to know when to open office after CNY... Then he mention few things that I do see the need to blog it down before my memory fails me (like so often now)

This is reading her date of birth and hour in that special chinese book:

Fast, mature, intelligent: she progresses very fast, we don't have to worry a single thing about her studies for she will breeze through them..

Wealth: Got plenty of money.. hers n daddy's (he didn't mention about the mummy you know.. hmmpff!)

Career: Succession of daddy's biz or if she can really study, law and medicine is a good choice.. daddy says no to lawyer though mummy thinks if she can grow up to be like granduncle Judge Roy Neighbour, will be cool...

Health: Great

Then he mention she is very strong willed something we can see now... horrible temper she has... he cautioned us in our way of upbringing and that we should NEVER use the hard way and use only reasoning with her. For if we don't do it the right way, she may rebel and gosh I think will be a ride. So if one day you see us talking to her in an adult way, please pardon us for that is our way of bringing her up. Try not to tell us your way of upbringing your child for ours is quite the special one.

He wants her to learn music.. for music calms her down greatly and it does wonder for her temper... so mummy flo is going to introduce her to all sorts of instruments and let her chose her favourite the day she is ready. I really hope is not going to be a cello or a harp coz I will flip!!

So is this all going to help? I'm not sure... though its interesting that he mention things WE all knew even though he has never met her. These are things we have spotted and are already introducing to her like Kindermusik and her music time with Grandpa Jon... just that he reinforced it that now its a must.

20 years down the road ... I will pull this post out and compare ... then maybe I will go and get my prophecies read though by then there will be nothing much... except when will I die...