Sex

n u wonder its suppose to be natural...

This sex thing after delivering is errmmm damn uncomfortable man.... We mummies speak openly about this issue as errmm it is an issue... guess its more tramatic for the selected few, painful for some and don't want it for majority.

I fall into the "I don't mind sex" as we had it the day before BB [V] was born, but after delivering.. it kinda of became a problem for a while.

1) You are so busy with the baby, that is the last thing on a mummies' mind

2) There is a nagging thought of wound-ing the poor organ (she)

3) Leaking milk when arouse = messy (actually hardly can get arouse but touch-ed)

4) Dry, definitely dry.. its worse when breastfeeding... something about the hormones they say

5) Needless to say, not sexy .. don't think, don't feel, don't want

But it gets better with time and of course trys...guess its mind over matter...

I spoke to mummies around and it seems that some start after 4 months, some rely on the "lub", some are best friends with the left and the right hand, some remain chaste (they say its going to be a while), some just do it for the sake of doing, one I know lost the hb to other organ (sad and F%*^*&(* bastard, I say)

Any man reading this, be patient...