Monday, May 5, 2014

Las Vegas - Travel

Looks like its time to blog my travels. Got too lazy to dig out photos, but I have to move it move it! So here it goes…. I took a trip with the husband to Las Vegas in April, he had a convention and I had  .. well, flexible time and a wanderlust heart.  Did like totally contemplated (since i just just did Germany, Barcelona and Taipei - JUST)  but decided that okie why not. It's been a good 15 years since I was there and I love, love, love, love, love (oh did I say that out too loud? ya abit oops)  time alone.  If it's your 1st time reading here, this is me.  ↓tumblr_m9qnsiVCvO1r6bsw8o1_500Anyway I totally decided since its April and its our anniversary month and I sort of psycho-ed myself that it will be our anniversay celebration. Well, women always will have reason for like everything. Besides that you need tha moo-lah  too la, if not how to enjoy wanderlust-ing ya.  Only when you are a independent woman with financial ability then can have this type of voice, okie.Nose pick booger We decided on a 8 days trips, come to think it was abit too long especially hanging around casinos was energy depleting. From a person who doesn't gamble, it was pretty drab.  Coz Vegas has 2 best things - Gamble and Clubbing,  guess what, none appealed to me.  Rewind 15 years back, I was clubbing crazy . Oh well. I was told by my tour guide that Vegas has the best clubbing scene like in the world. DJs are paid by millions to play in the clubs to bring people into the casinos. Well, I reckon drunk people do many silly things and losing money was what they were looking for. Just thinking out loud. #YOLO Back to the trip, flying was a pain. I reached my destination almost close to 30 hours later. It could have been faster if not for loose connecting time  which was way fun in Narita airport coz I was "mai dong xi chi dong xi" bestest lo. We stuffed ourselves with pricey udon and katsu curry rice *slurps, but I so miss Japan. Then I sort of went overboard with buying Toyko Banana and Royce. Then it got drabby when we reached San Francisco with NO wifi and glooby weather. Anyways we finally reached Vegas… we looked CHUI.
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I miss direct flights to states.
At this point, I am so refusing to look into my camera to dig photos out. Why? After the migration of my blog, all my photos are blur blur and I have to resize them ALL! Wails!!!!!!!  Now I have to categorize and resize photos, who says blogging is easy.. my ass I tell u!  If you are free can kaypoh my rant post here about categorising my posts . Anyway I'm quite liking this new home though I dunch koe how some people side bar got so many things, I need to redo my profile, my write up. Just receive an personalised email from a sponsor and it states "I search the whole blog and can't find your name, so Hi FloMummy"Nervous so jialat right. I mean this PR girl so hardworking and its my fault. So soli about it. I will get there eventually.. even-tua-llllly…. Something I have learnt from this site and that is no more handphone picktures le. It's really totally unforgiving to photos man. Now I have to plan my outfits well to events coz must look mei mei in photos, as of it bring 2 children out is already so handful, must plan cannot wear 3 inch shoes or skirts that pockets in pants are bestest and I have to bring my NIKON? Oh well, lets see. I will get there la. Back to Vegas. Sorry I digress so much, but I think I will just blog the 8 days here and not like some who breakes it up to Day 1- Day 8.  Basically, when I stumble on such a blog, I don't read it. It's too mafan for my brain coz I read on my mobile and to click click from day to day is too much. The worst type are those who cannot even  sequence their days, like day 8  read here for day 6 and here here here for day 4. Wtf? You want just write, if not link properly.  Anyways, yes, Vegas, Just as beautiful and empty slots of land 15 years ago have now been filled by very typical buildings you know. The new ones are just no enough style. They bring the cosmopolitian  high rise buildings, plastered it with glass and make them really high and call it CASINO. Best lo, I felt I was in New York at one point. I read up and Vegas has stopped building for the last 10  years or something, economy and crap. Plus apparently the gambling haven is in Macau. Please do not quote me, its Wiki that I read. Oh but I did read about a new casino that's is coming up in 2016 by Resorts World that is Oriental theme with 6000 rooms and they are planning to have pandas. Cool right? Since the white tigers have retired from MGM, people will get excited to see pandas. Anyway, when I read I was like ?? then adjusted my thoughts and Vegas appeals to young children too. I saw alot of them la, just was wondering why would anyone expose their young children to people passing them namecards of titties of many sizes. CheerleaderIMG_1083Day 1 after 30 hours of travelling was exploring the strip. We did the Bellagio Buffet which was recommended, but as usual couldn't eat much for they had a massive array of food. Totally made a mistake by eating after so many hours of travelling. We were exhausted, bloated to down so much of food.  Oh, I tell you the weather in Vegas was freakish la! One of those trips I would never expect to be winter, night was 8-9 degrees!! It was a torture and I believe  it was for everyone that 3-4 days.  You could tell it was unexpected because people on the road was in bermudas, flip flops and sundresses.  But we were supposed to be in winter wear!  We managed to catch the sun 2 days before left where the temperature was at its normal of 20-24 degrees.  Apparently States has been experiencing the cold front all winter and it hasn't "left" and that few days it sort of arrived to LV. Kk here are some photos before I think of what happened. 1The selfie stand bought from Q10 didn't help coz I cannot find the right angle and the husband is NOT patient. Note: bring selfie stand only for BFF trips. 2Bellagio Buffet IMG_0844At the Bellagio - The wind was so strong from the cold, they cancelled the fountain performance. It was way too cold to enjoy the strip and we went to walk about inside the casinos. By then we were stuffed, cold, tired and decided to call it a night. The next morning  we started pretty much early as Hb has to go for his convention and  I was left to wander abouts.  The 1st thing was to go to the shops to find for V her Frozen toys which at the end of the trip after going to 4-5 shops, we coudn't find any. So yes, the grievances of the parents who are not able to buy the Frozen toys are totally true. They make us parents break our promises, *something like that la. So I wandered doing what I do best but after 3 casinos, I was kanckered la! The one that hit me was The Venetian/ Palazzo, those who have travelled to these places will know they are meant to confuse you and they have that fake daytime/sunset feel. IMG_0885But Sands did their casino 1 up by creating the maze within a maze.  For a person who has relatively good sense of direction,  it took me real hard and I don't do well with bad energy.  I ended up at a couch watching 2 episodes of Running Man. From there I got kinda of charged and got out of the casino which I never stepped in after.  Whatever happened after I don't remember coz I didn't take any photos hahaha. I just know my energy level was at an all time low when I met up with hb. Guess we had dinner and walked the strip. Day 3 was way better, I started the day with outlet shopping!*yippee I went both eventually both Las Vegas North Premium North Outlet  and South outlet. In summary, North has more brands which is relevant to me coz we bought Ferragamo shoes and there was a huge Hugo Boss. South is more mass market, the type of enclosed mall with crappy foodcourt type.  So depends on what you like.  I took the Deuce which is like their bus that goes Northbound and Southbound. So so easy to use and costs Usd $8 for 2 days.  After shopping I did Casino hopping, not going inside to shop but just to see see look look. Las-Vegas-Hotels-Map4I totally enjoyed the walk and people watching. The weather was great and I caught some sun! I didn't finish my walk and was in midway when hb finished his stuff. I got the Deuce back and met him as we have an dinner engagement to go to. One thing I do like travelling with my hb is that its educational for me. Not so much on the sightseeing  part since I was travelling independently from a young age. But that we have business dinners and I alway have so many things to learn from. Most wives do not like to enertain but not me, I make an awesome plus one mainly because I am comfortable in my own skin and holds great conversations. Maybe that's why my hb asks me to accompany on trips huh. hahaha.
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One of the decent photos we took at Bellagio
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Only few photos that th buildings didnt get cut off or not centred.. If u hv a hb that takes photos great its PTL
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Beautifiul display of flowers
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Inside Bellagio
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This part of Vegas didn't change much…
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The infamous Bellagio fountain show
After the fountain show, we got back in to eat ice cream coz there was this reccomended ice cream palour Jean-Philippe Patisserie that has the world largest chocolate fountain.IMG_0988IMG_0992IMG_0991We ended our dinner with my Hb's business partner and got ourselves an invite to his strawberry farm to stay which is located in Montana where its just a ride away from Glaciers mountain that is near his backyard. Totally sounds amazing and is something I want to do with the children. We totally accepted his invite and will plan one when the kids are bigger for while he was telling us how wonderful his strawberry bush and cheery trees, that glaciers mountains view are to die for. He did add that they have brown bears that lurk in the forest. Like WTF, bears lei.. well at that point we were like thank god for guns. http://eemoticons.net   Since the weather was warming up we did a walk at the strip. IMG_1004IMG_1015IMG_1010  It was at this point we saw alot of "actors" on the road for photo taking opportunities. We ventured and found their 1st mode of transport even before buses and that was the monorail and took a ride on it. Its just a pity its quite a distance from the strip. Here are some photos of 2014 Las Vegas.
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The one with the best sight - Bellagio
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Paris, Ballys and planet Hollywood
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New part of the strip which made me think I was NOT in LV
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Had to take this.. Mandarin Oriental has the most expensive rooms on the strip
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On eof the newest baby on the Strip - Aria
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Monte Carlo
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A lucky shot of the other side of the road with no cars
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Love the outdoor roller coaster
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New York New York
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One of the classic- Tropicana
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The grand old dame of MGM
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The Excalibur- looks like Disneyland
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If you take the monorail from Madalay Bay, it stops here
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Luxor with pyramid inspired building
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Mandalay Bay- not sure if you watch Las Vegas (my fav) the series? They used this building facade
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The Venetian
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I remember this in its glory days.. where everyone will gather to watch it come alive
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Good old skool Treasure lsland - the casino smells like coconut
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The Strip - North side
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The Wynn
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Beautiful japanese inspired gardens at The Wynn
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New on the strip - The Fashion Mall
The husband did offer me to go LV next year at this time but *gulps.  Dunno if its worth my days and travelling man. Maybe I will do 2 days here and go Miami after. Anyways next comes the highlight of my trip to Las Vegas and the reason why I chose to go. To mark a tick on my BUCKET LIST! GRAND CANYON- one of The world's natural wonder of the world and I keep missing this one. Let me work on that while I post this 1st.

Tuesday, April 22, 2014

My 1st post after migration

I spent too much time yesterday struggling to categorize my blog. If you have started blogging, please start doing so and not wait till like me-have 700+ posts to do so.*way too many
The last 1 year of blog posts has been pretty much crappy, I spent too much time rolling my eyes while reading them. Then it occured to me, I do not like monetizing my blog actually you know! After like 7 pages of tagging and got sick of myself, what I did was reverted to tagging from my 1st post. I was overwhelmed by memories and how true I was to my self then. Totally enjoyed re-reading them but still got lost in catergorising them. Coz most of them were just like talking too much cock, they don't belong to any cept category "BULLSHIT".
I suck at organizing. I am of the girls who will wake up in the morning and gets so excited clearing cupboards (coz of NO Space), spends the next 30 mins overwhelmed by clothes that I never knew existed. The next 1 hour rummaging through drawers when in the 1st place the focus was the cupboard. Then eventually after 1h 30 mins, with a huge pile of mess, I declared that its done and stuff everything back -- CRUMPLED. #StillNOspace.
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I am also one of those who insisted on "throwing" out stuffs and prepares 5 bags to donate. While "throwing", I lose focus and starts exploring. Eventually, it doesn't go into the donation bag but to the upper compartment or gets transfer to a new place - thinking that I will put in an obvious eye view so it will be used. Yes, you guessed it. I have 5 empty bags. I would have spent another 2 hours wasting my time "trying" to do something. Sometimes I leave the mess abouts and go read a book that I found lying around in my cuppie, piled under some handbag. Needless to say what my husband's expression is. #heknowshiswifecannotpackfornuts
It seems by now, you will know I detest doing housework for this simple reason. It's not that I do not know how to, for those who don't know... I cooked and prepare myself to school at 7 years old. Trust me when I tell you I know everything about housework. "Jia Jia Le" or "Masak Masak" was something I did on real fire since 6 years old. Housework do not excite me at all, I plainly do not like to do them.
I may eventually not finish my homework on renovating my blog but did realize what needs to be done. Reviews, advertorials seems not to be my cup of tea. My life experiences are way more fun to write and this is my core. My strength is that I am awesome in telling my sad,woe stories and is just as capable to tell my success stories. This could just be my voice, why do something uncomfortable till it drives me sleepless, right? Just about getting my mojo back...
Wordpress doesn't have spell check and I cannot spell.. OMG.

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

The Big Renovation

The time has come when I have nothing to write about....

I thought very hard and wondered if I do need to have another child to have stuffs to write about? I have reached a stage where I am no longer comfortable to blog about my children and their whereabouts. The security issue plays high on my mind and the mother's instinct closes up to protect them. I do have the urge to write but they are all random thoughts and wonder to myself if thats' blog worthy. So it brings me back to why I have a blog, I should effing not care what others think.  So I get ping ponged around my thoughts if this blog should continue, then I toyed with monetizing it which at the end made me more confused. Just because some companies ask for too much and me being a newbie, I don't really know how to nego well enough. I enjoyed reviewing but I detest the other technicalities of it. But of course I grew wiser and now command more say in what I want to review.

In recent months, the writer's block has intensified and the urge of writing dipped. Thank God for the community of bloggers that I have in my facebook that kept my interest of blogging alive. So the time has come to reconfiqure my thoughts and the directions of the blog.

This blog started when one normal mummy who got bored at home and she was searching for that voice. We started off as http://victoria-eden.blogspot.com, ya very typical right hahahaah! My whole journey, my rants, my thoughts made up of the 1st 3 years of the blog. I know NOTHING about blogging but took it up coz well, it was fun. The mummies read each other blog and we left comments to motivate each other. During that time, I made so many friends from my readers! They left me emails, comments.. we felt we knew each other. Well, needless to say they have all become part of my social capital and buddies now.

Slowly the montetizing came because I had readers, not famous but good enough numbers. I get PR companies emailing me, inviting me to events - All these without me marketing my blog.  People knew me... literally.  I have gone to events and people recognize my girl, came up and warmed like we were old buddies. They knew where I hangout, what I did last weekend, they invaded into my inner thoughts. It got kinda scary. My protective shell started to ascend and my posts stopped sharing about my children. The 2nd part of my blogging journey had snippets of my parenting styles and lesser on my children. I changed my blog name to a domain website FloMummy.com

I struggle now to link my posts together because it is been around for 5 years. I have 700 over entries and powerful information enough to launch a book. I have post that went on The Singapore Daily (that was fun) and many few that are high on search engine in Google. It's now that I realized that I need to categorize my posts, sub categorize it for easy navigation! So that is going to happen the next 1 month, a migration from Blogger to Wordpress and to save all my posts in a folder for they all mean so much to me.

I researched and my tops posts are

Parenting:
1. Sharing on how to look after children ailments (teething, rosela)
2. Tips on co-sleeping, breastfeeding, potty training
3. Handling 2 children of different styles - Dr Sears Vs Gina Ford series
4. My parenting style (No Caning, Our routines, Growing up to be ladies)

My Personal Styles
1. My Hair Styles hahhaha (amazing how my hair gets top reads)
2. FloLookBook (My makeup looks)
3. How I lose weight (Seems like a No 1 mummy issue)

Birthday
1. Birthday Celebrations.
2. Goodie Bags

Events
1. Children events
2. What I reccomend

I did my polls and seems that my styling tips for mummy is top on the list! They requested that it will be a regular feature in my blog. Women, beauty and tai tai lifestyle tips cannot go wrong here. Looks like the identity of my blog is actually very clear, just that I never bother finding out. *hangs head in shame

Categories : Yummy Mummy Lifestyle, Events for children, Parenting Tips,

While I renovate, if you on my FB and have products/ events that should interest my readers. If you have business that fit into my new categories, drop me a FB or email me at florindatay@hotmail.com. I will be clear I don't write for free but love to write for goodies :)

Things I believe will interest

1. Places for lunch/tea/dinner for yummy mummies gatherings. We get stuck organizing ALWAYS.  (Can be chichi or those suitable to bring children)
2. Exercises. Gym classes. Yoga, Pilates.  Mummies need to find energy to look good
3. I need hair sponsor for sure, did you read that my hair posts rank highest?
4. Can dress me up? I write for your shop, blogshop or online shop.
5. Beautiful nails
6. Healthy foods and please make sure its edible
7. Natural remedies that help my children
8. Services that will benefit mummies
9. Places that my children can go, crafting or to burn that energy

I'm sure there are loads more. Let's disuss

Monday, March 24, 2014

Pilates Fitness Cardio Jumpboard Class

I think by now you realized I seriously love this Pilates Fitness and would glad to make a trip to try their new classes. I'm sort of dying for them to open in the East coz their 2 outlets are seriously not in my route to anywhere at any day :( I tried Pilates in the gym - both Pilates Mat and Pilates Fitness but it really doesn't give the same effect as the being on the reformer. I like the reformer for a very basic reason, coz I'm lying down hahah so lazy right. But you will be surprised the effect it does onto your body. I did 1 month with them at the 1st outlet and lost inches at my hips and thunder thighs which takes the longest time to tone! I get friends telling me how different my legs look like now.

2 weeks ago,  I was invited to try their Cardio Jumpboard Pilates. Wa sey is happening one okie! It was 1 hour of non-stop "jumping" on the reformer board. Totally so suitable for people like me who cannot co-ordinate my limbs in those cardio classes like Body Combat or Bollywood dance!


 
First, let me show you the exact location of their new outlet at Serangoon Gardens. It's nearer to Gardens' popular Pow Sing Chicken Rice store, so park/walk towards that side. Find Macdonald and park on that stretch, parking coupon is required.  Pilates Fitness is on the upper floor of the shop house no 85A.

This Serangoon Gardens outlet is their latest outlet and is definitely conveniently located as compared to the Telok Blangah outlet. I was there early to sniff around a little, the classes were all full! 

 
Totally love the new Reformers! Purple!!
So what's the difference between Pilates Reformer class vs Cadio Jumpboard Pilates?

You can read my Reformer review here. Now Reformer class focus a lot on your body posture, I have bad posture when exercising which I found out only after attending Pilates. I have since ensure I do not at any time hunch my back and put my weight on my chest. Do you have chest pains? If so start with your posture and this helps heaps.  The class focus alot on strength, control and predominately working the core muscles. Class pace is relative manageable and Pilates is about breathing properly. Yes, you will ache a lot after the 1st few classes but they are good aches. I stood taller during that time I was doing it. 

Cardio Jumpboard however is an effective and fast weight loss routine that sculpts and tones the body. The pace of the class was fast and totally totally fun! It is intense and fast paced, which means more calories are lost since it helps u increase metabolism right? I had a power sweat out without feeling like my legs cannot carry me anymore or that my head was spinning trying to balance after a gym cardio workout. 

You can see from the photo that there is a jumpboard and the workout focus a lot on using that. Of course you will notice that the class is small which means you get the attention you need with each class. 



The many varieties on how we use the Jumpboard.
I though this was really apt on what I felt during and after the class. The fact it was so fast paced, challenging, 1 hour really flew by and its like you feel so recharged after! I did not at all feel clumsy as my 1st reformer class but of course it is because I got used to the pulleys, springs and gadgets of the reformer. Try it, seriously it's really fun! If you are on the route for these 2 outlets, envious much.

They have a promotion going on and you should check it out
For this post, Pilates Fitness would like to give away 1 Reformer Pilates Trial (30 mins introduction + 55 min Weight Loss or Body Aches Reformer Pilates) to readers who quote "FloMummy" when booking a class. *Valid till 30th April 2014 for all first-timers at Pilates Fitness only.



Serangoon Garden Outlet
Studio Mobile: +65 8322 9552
Studio Address: 85A, Serangoon Garden Way, Singapore 555981

Telok Blangah Outlet
Studio Mobile: +65 9184 7622
Studio Address: 434,Telok Blangah Road, Singapore 098854
http://www.PilatesFitness.com.sg

Business Registration Number: 201022985Z

Friend Us @http://www.facebook.com/pilatesfitness 


*Disclaimer: I was invited to attend 2 classes for this post but I attended 1 class but was very much convinced by the benefits of it. No monetary compensation was given and all opinions are mine. 

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

The Asian Digital Mum Report 2014

I was invited by The Tickled Media's (runs Pregnant.sg, The Asian Parent, Kidlander) presentation of The Asian Digital Mum Report 2014.

Now what is it u ask, its plainly put by me as Consumer Behaviour. This interest me alot as a blogger and an entrepreneur mainly because my target market are mummies. I love being a mum, the day I became a mum, I grew up - Instantaneous. Grew up not only coz my VJJ squeezed out a 3.5 kg but emotionally I discovered that I have so much love and that I can love something other than myself so EXTREME. Topics pertaining parenthood interest me and I "hang" around forums like it was MY LIFE. My forum mummies are my buddies and those who experience the same drama of 1st stages of motherhood like me became immediate BFFs! Those bitches in school that I didn't talk coz they talk behind my back, well they became my tea buddies.  Doesn't help that I was suddenly great friends with my husband's old buddies wives, or that his cousins and I have a common topic. There was just a common denomintion and it was because we became MOTHERS. Right on people?

When I had my 1st born, there was no day or night. Google was my dear friend  *opps I will rephrase it  STILL is my bestie. I don't remember talking much to humans, I texted more. Facebook was my way of chatting with forum friends- with those I decided to be friends with. Whatsapp group chat rocked and is still RAWKING (although I'm more incline to LINE for their cute cartoons, album creation) With the social apps, I felt that I was still connected to the world while staying at home looking after the baby. During that 1 year,  I bought so MANY THINGS that I don't need. Just because the mummies around me was stirring shit (my husband's term, mainly coz he paid for the purchases) and I joined endless BP (Bulk Purchases) just because when 20 people buys and its cheaper by 15% or whatever I was suckered into.

All these experience somehow formed me into this era of DIGITAL MUM. Yes, I was one of those people this particular report is talking about. Just to share of the photos of the event before I blog on the report on what was interesting. (Photo Credits: Tickled Media)

Find me! (Obviously playing with my smartphone)
 I do what a blogger would do, post in Instagram and share on FB!
Yep, my social media savvy mummies saw the mistake! They were more upset than me hahah!
I need to sit better, omg
The panel of speakers: Meri Rosich,Holly Lam,Mantazh Khanna,Meiling Wong and Simon Kahn
{Based on The Asian Digital Mum Report}

I will share what this report on: Based on 10,000 mummies surveyed in SEA (2729 Singapore, 668 Malaysia, 2456 Indonesia, 4586 Thailand), it is noted that The Asian Digital Mum is the primary household decision maker aka the Chief Household Officer! A whopping 89% of purchases are of her influence, well apparently mummies do make use of what we see online as we slowly but surely decrease our usage of television . 99% of us use Smart phone to go into parenting sites, check emails and be on social media. Then I wonder WTH the last 1% do? I do agree that mummies make decisions based on the word of mouth reccomendations! Yes, that powerful.

Source: The Asian Parent
Source: The Asian Parent

Its amazing to know the statistics,  with 91% of Asian mums reading parenting tips when using the Internet, it is clear that motherhood changes a woman's priorities when she is surfing the web. The most read topic online amongst mums in Singapore is parenting tips at 89%, with the second most popular being family activities at 72%

Source: The Asian Parent
I though this info was really great as a blogger. For at least I can have clear targeted topics to write about.  I too discovered that I am in this group of digital mummies called Power Internet Mums for we use internet more than 80 hours a week. I admit, I touch my smartphone abit too much. Well, not all days I'm shopping or chatting but I like to research things. Research means seeking advices and 74% of Asian mums turn to the internet for help instead of consulting friends or families *guilty much

It's crazy to note that Android reign as the preferred platform at 51% vs *ahem IOS (sorry no longer my 1st love for smart phone) Those still using the smaller screen, please do something.. my blog says so. Hehe. 

Now, what social platforms are preferred?

Quite obvious isn't it?
Source: The Asian Parent
There are whole lot of information in the research but it will be seriously pretty wrong for me to share the whole report. I will be keen to share with you if you are keen ;) But I'm noting a trend in G+ and see you there more often from now on! I'm a Power Internet Mom who read trends very well too. 

I love one statement in the report's conclusion which i'm quoting:
"Mums are impatient -- when they want information, they want it immediately. From status updates to Instagram posts, she is eagar to share her thoughts, worries, interests and proudm joyful moments as they come. The trick is to keep up with her, or get one step ahead" 

Absolutely well said!

You can read here for my post on blogging mummies.

Friday, March 14, 2014

Diary Post #2

Thank God for husbands or rather my husband. He came back from his football, came to my side of the bed and gave me a big bear hug. His reason coz I looked so sad. Love de right? We had our night conversations and updated each other of our crappy day/week/month. Looks like he is having a rough ride too and it didn't help I was away on a Taiwan trip with my girlfiends druting his down time. So we spent the night catching up and sharing the "oh not so fun march" which sort of lighten my heart real much coz I woke up with a lighter heart. Thank God for children.. I'm serious. To see them and spend time is God's grace, on days like this is gratifiying to soak up their love. Days that darkness loom and blinds that heart.

I am slightly better though my direction in life is bleak. My purpose seems unsure but it is a life cycle that I have to go through. I am eating the $2 nasi lemak in the banana leaf type if you are curious, simple food bring pleasure in a significant way.

Thursday, March 13, 2014

Diary Post #1

I have been wondering what my blog should steer towards. I know this blog is under a parenting blog but somehow I need to find my identity on what's content should be. Hmm.. have yet found my identity yet, or rather I may have already have an indentity but it got lost along the way. So before I find it back again, I decided to write a diary to keep it going.

It has been an emotional ride last 1 yr and it is still roller-ing. Basically just my emotions... its crappy you know. With everything that is going on, I thank God that its no biggie and its only ME that is taking the punch and no one else. I know this is my life journey that this are all tests to get me out of my comfort zone to be even better. But before I reach there, it is just so zzzz. Today is one of those.. just want to nuah. Didn't want to wake up, didn't want to eat luch, didn't want to leave the room, didn't want to shower. Oh my, we have all been there issn't it!!!! Food just looks blah, water is not appetising.  The reason I am writing is coz I finally showered and decided that while I wallow in self pity, that blogging it, may be therapeutic.

So i will just blog until this feelings ends and I do like this short snippets of my life being blogged down. Who knows this may eventually become a book to inspire lost souls like me. Yawns while I go back on my bed and hibernate.