MIL

So she drove me mad , fuming mad yesterday...

I finally had a day of not doing anything but stay in to be with my daughter, Dd T had his weekly football exercise every thursday. So I made the decision to NOT go out that day, man it was totally a wrong move. Freaking MIL was in some emo state and was scolding me for giving MY DAUGHTER A BISCUIT!!!

Crap, she was telling me I was not a good mother for not putting my foot down when my daughter was crying for the last 15 mins (1. for lack of sleep/nap, 2. mil had to turn off the hall lights when V was in the foulest mood 3. she just wanted a biscuit) Then I succumbed to giving her that bloody biscuit, THE BISCUIT THAT THEY HAVE BEEN GIVING FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS! and it was MY fault that my daughter was addicted to the fxxxx thing!

I got so pissed with her statement and walked upstairs. Argghh!!

Anyway its over, nevertheless its a lesson learnt. That I will
1) stay out
2) go back my own house and not even let V go to school when I have time off
3) don't bother about the MIL for its a result for her boredom
4) don't take it to heart
5) stay upstairs if I really need to be in that house for you never know when her hormone rages.

I was this close to calling my FIL to complain! hahhahah and he was in pakistan then, think he will freak out.  Anyway it was just bad energy, everything was good when the husband came back and listen to my rant. Oh well, mother in laws. Seriously?

Florinda, always remember to be a person that people love. or rather be loved. Never do silly things like these to upset your children. Emotional management is the number 1 most important management to be someone.

Thanks for reading my rant.