Today was one of bizarre day that makes u wonder WTH just happen?
I got into my new office early and cheery, had to do the "opening" ritual of sending emails - basically do something business like.. Oh yes, I got myself a new office! Its in TripleOne Somerset *smiles... I love it in case u cannot tell!!
Did lunch and went for a parenting workshop, things I do to be current. hehe
My Gf and I collected our goodie bag which consists of an umbrella, like weee... *cheapos. I so am aunty when it comes to goodie bags. I did give away the 900 g of milk powder to one of the mummies sitting at my table.. not relevant, umbrellas are more! You see the odd mentality? $45 vs $5 ....
Back to my story...
We introduced each other and started doing the mummy talk, exchanging our phones and proudly showing the children photos. The usual mummy behaviour around the universe isnt it? Then one mummy from my table
"Are you from SJC? "
"Eh, ya... do I know you?"
"oh we have common friends.. xxx, xxx, xxx and xxx"
"U from there too?" Stares at her hard... "but I don't recognise u, which year?"
Stumbles... "I think u will know XX"
"Yes of course I know XX" (XX btw is the EX)
"How's he? We spoke recently, he called to ask me about our stylist contact no, the one that we visit together"
"Oh really?"
Chatter , chatter , chatter amongst each other... sharing etc.
The mummy left to go toilet and didn't return. We were like , maybe she went shopping hahhaha.
2 hours later, my hp started to ring. All these while Stephanie Sun was sharing ....
The EX
"Hello, so u met the wife"
"Ya she was seated at my table, so small the world, we were surprised"
"Oh she got angry with me for calling u, she thinks its more than that"
"WTF u talking about? its a hairstylist number"
"Yes, she is pissed at me calling you cause I didn't tell her"
"Eh please what fxxking nonsence u talking about, a call and so much drama?
"Yes, she think I was not honest"
"Wa, do u need me to give u advise, this is crap."
"Does Trev knows I called"
"Huh, u asking me a very odd question, is a hairstylist no!!"
"Can U ask Trev to call me, maybe he can help me out"
"Can, but he very busy, so am I .. gotta go"
Has to be the world oddest conversation I had in the world! Like you don't see the Ex in like years and suddenly bang... *teenage relationship drama.
I send a long text to Trev which he obviously ignored, I am just thankful he didn't send me a wtf u talking reply hahhaha.
Whilst I was latching baby Kate and putting her to sleep, we chatted over this. He too agreed that something must have happened to give the wife such insecurity and its pitiful. Oh if u are thinking, why so odd... Trev and I are great friends with my EXs. We hang around and all.. I mean we still see one of my ex every other month and celebrate xmas or new years together. Yea that crazy. Its just me and Trev is great like that.
I mean, he got married about the same time as me which can be about 7 years (oh trev and I just celebrated out 7th wedding anniversary on sunday over a bowl of ramen hahaahahahha) has 2 sons and yet the wife has to "investigate" me via facebook. If we calculate backwards, 7 + 5 years of courtship is 12 years ago .. *dinosaur age. She still can be bothered to do all this. My gf was like, "Ya what all ex check on all ex", I was like " eh sister, so free ah, go and waste time to check."
To me, all marriage should start on a white sheet of paper. Whatever was done in the past are lessons and please don't bring it over to a marriage. I had ever have the craziest convo with girlfriends who still miss their exs, compares the husband... like seriously?
This has to be the silliest phone call I had, the last few about my another ex is pale in comparison to this one. For the drama-ness of this, just wins hands down. FYI, she didn't come back from the toilet. Guess emotions got the better of the relationship and is something the ex (me) and her husband can never help.
