Bam Bam (Day 22)

her bestie and her foe

I mean it... Bam Bam love and hate her at the same time...

I took a lot of effort in introducing BB [V] to BamBam, for she being our "1st born" had ALL our attention. The time I got preggy and got fat, Bamz always gave me that look like why is mummy so fat type of look. She has always been looked after by us and by Grandma Clara when I was overseas; pls note that she is my mum's favourite grandchild. NO KIDDING!

We always have to ask permission to take her back with us cause the grands will miss her terribly... nothing more than 1 week. So we resorted to staying the grands so that I get to stay with her. Yes, we are nomads... we move around the different houses every other time. Why? cause we are very family oriented people and we miss our parents heaps. We have been doing this since we started courting and Bamz travel with us. Even though now we have more baggage.... we still do it. (But nothing more than 3 days... coz the grandmas nag and I hate it)

The day I discharged, I went back to collect my princess... Taking BB[V] 's clothes and let Bamz sniff it, I sat in front with her in the car and left BB [V] behind with my mum, carry Bamz to the house instead of V and alot of other things to prevent her from jealous.

Here is her checking the baby. She very much wanted to smell BB[V] but we didn't allow her too as she just got discharged. I remembered the 1st or 2nd day, BB [V] was crying and we were figuring what she wanted. So she was passed around and her booties dropped. Bamz picked it up and walked around to each of us, nudging us at our legs; telling us her bootie dropped. But we couldn't attend to her as BB[V] was fussing, so she kept the bootie in her mouth, dropping it and picking it up... clueless on what to do. The 2nd night was quite a ride as BB[V] cried alot which we believed was insecurity, so we took turns walking her... Bamz walked with us too, around the house.... very camaraderie... it came to a point she was so tired and sat on the bed looking weary... and everytime BB [V] woke and cry , she would too.... the next day she crashed, snoring the whole day... was so funny!!!

here is her loving .... her way of loving when V cries

watching tv

Being everywhere... and she insist on being there

sleeping together

boo_ing BB [V] for ignoring her

It really worked well till recently, now that BB [V] will crawl and pull her tail... she totally HATES It... *sigh*

part 2 tomorrow